Hi all! It's been a while since I made a post and I've been thinking about you all! Thank you everyone for the bday wishes in my notes! Today I'm going to write a little bit about fetishes and really some things I've observed. I will occasionally get messages from fetishists who tell me they've never really experienced a girl farting and asked for advice on how to get their girlfriends to fart for them or whatever. That made me wonder how they know they'd like the fetish if they were to experience it. I'm probably the furthest thing from an expert in the subject, but I do have some stories to share that relate.
Most of you are probably aware that I don't personally have a fart fetish. I've been with someone who had the fetish and that helped me open my mind and accept it, but I never went around asking people to fart in my face or anything like that. With that said, he was in a lot of your situations. He felt deep down inside that he loved it when girls would fart, but he never experienced it until he really built up the courage to explain to me that he had the fetish. It wasn't really anything I expected to hear and it took a lot of courage on my part to reveal that side of me that isn't so feminine and does burp, fart, and generally just smell from time to time (like anyone else!!!). It took me about a week after knowing to actually let my instincts subside and fart for him, and despite what he originally believed, it wasn't what he expected. There have been times that I'd fart for him close ranged and he'd turn his head or push away, leaving me to ask "Well did you expect it to smell like roses or what!" The most interesting thing was that even if he found it to be a little too intense at the time and initially wasn't turned on in the slightest, about 20 minutes later he'd be so happy that I did it. The moral of the story is that this fetish is largely in your head and the idea of a girl farting is actually more pleasurable that the act itself (which could be more than you bargained for depending on what was for lunch!) So don't feel down fetishists, you really aren't missing out on a big thing!
I also have another story about my own exploration. I have more traditional fetishes, but the more and more I've let myself become a part of this fetish community with my stories, the more open I really let myself become. I'm a little mortified typing this, but I was a little curious exploring this whole skunk fetish community after talking to a friend on here for months. I thought it was a little attractive to be a little skunky or to have some kind of power to do that to other people (yup, this is actually being posted). I always thought skunk spray smelled like what you smell when you're driving along the road. The past week I made it home from college to be with my family for a sort of late birthday celebration for the weekend. Long story short, I walked my dog to use the bathroom so she wouldn't have an accident during the night and she took a sharp turn straight for a skunk evilly lurking just against the side of the house, with me on the other end of the leash. I can tell you right now that it wasn't anything that I was expecting either. I've yet to reach the stage where I think it was attractive after the fact like my ex boyfriend had with the farting fetish, and I'm not too sure if that will happen hahahahaha! I have to feel a little less traumatized first I guess. So there's another example of how it's perfectly okay to not experience these fetishes first hand, because a lot of it is really best experienced in your minds. So chins up everyone, and be proud of who you are!
If you are in a situation where you still really want to experience a girl farting and it's not something that you want to be talked out of, I have a little advice from the perspective at the other end.
1) If it's your girlfriend, wife, or just a friend who is a girl that you feel is close enough to you and might be willing to let her guard down without feeling bad about herself, you can take her out to a nice lunch. Girls get gassy just like all of you, we just excuse ourselves to fart where no one can pin it on us. The best way to get a girl who is close to you to fart in front of you is to make her have to fart to begin with! The longer you hang out with her in close proximity after that, the more likely she might let one slip in front of you if you two are close enough.
2) If they are close to you and it isn't your first date, don't be afraid to be the first to fart. Even if she doesn't find it funny, as long as she isn't offended then you just opened the door in the relationship. Laugh it off, but don't focus on it! Let it become something that is okay to do that won't have an incredible amount of attention drawn to it. That way, she might be a little more comfortable to slip one out here and there.
Those are two secrets that can really be used together to enter farting into the relationship that really isn't uncomfortable for the girl and can even start to make you two feel closer together. If you're going to confess your fetish to her, make sure you two are comfortable farting in front of each other first for a while so it doesn't feel like such a shock. I handled the shock pretty well, but I am sure that there are plenty of cases where it didn't work out so well.
^_^ And that's been my rant! Thank you guys for reading and I'd love to read any comments or notes you have! I am currently working on a piece for Stinky and Stella (skunkskunky) that will hopefully find it's way to being posted soon! Then I'll be working on bringing Erin back into my stories in a new and interesting way.
I love you guys!